In place of sorrow, there is love. In place of scarcity, there is abundance. In place of illness, there is good health. The difference between the two is where you focus your attention and intention.
Having a plan is important, and working on the plan is important. But forcefully working the plan doesn’t work. Instead, give yourself the time to allow it to happen organically. Not only will you achieve your desires, you’ll also have the energy to enjoy them.