Loss has two sides to it. One side is uncomfortable because it requires you to let go of your comfort zones. The other side is liberating because as you let go of your comfort zones, you create new space for new ways of doing things.
If you feel more comfortable when your life is predictable, then it’s time to shake it up and try something new. The definition of predictability is always behaving in the expected way.
Ego serves a powerful purpose. It lets you know when you feel compromised, when you feel unappreciated, and when you feel threatened. When it rears its head pay attention to what you’re feeling.
Accepting things as they are doesn’t mean you’re giving up. It means that you desire to see the situation differently, so you can decide what your next course of action will be.