Belonging isn’t about being like others in order to fit in. It’s being different than others, and allowing you to stand out in the crowd, yet still feeling you do belong.
There’s a time to push to make things happen, and then there’s a time to let things happen. When you’re pushing and nothing is happening, let go and allow the universe to make it happen. Life’s then a whole lot easier.
When you have trouble managing your day, it is human nature to try to micromanage other people’s day. No one likes that, and it causes them to avoid you.