When problems are your own you can fix them. When the problems belong to some else, then all you can do is listen. We each have to fix our own problems.
If there’s no other soul like you in the Universe, then why would you want to be like someone else? A cat doesn’t want to be a dog, and a dog doesn’t want to be a cat.
Life is a cycle of climbing up to the top of the mountain and then returning to the bottom. The ancient mystics called this Ascension and Stepping Down.